Any healthy man becomes aroused several times faster than a woman. For most, a quick glance at a naked body is enough for an erection and subsequent sexual intercourse. Others need reinforcement in the form of tactile stimulation - these are people with a kinesthetic type of perception of external information. They need to touch everything, feel it physically to process it with their brain and accept it. If your partner loves touch and is more turned on by it, then he belongs to this group. Of course, guys with increased tactile needs will not refuse the sight of a beautiful girl, but their arsenal should include stimulation techniques with hands and other parts of the body!
It is a mistaken belief that only the female half needs foreplay. Men also love affection and don't mind prolonging the pleasure they receive to relax physically and psychologically. And there are no less erogenous points on a strong torso than on beautiful maidens. For a quality erotic session, you will need knowledge about sensitive areas, so let's enrich our knowledge with seductive techniques together. Today we will learn how to excite a man with our hands and how to press all the "red buttons"!
Erogenous points in men, caress them correctly
Erogenous zones are those areas of the skin that are most sensitive to touch and influence. Your caresses help increase excitement and erection. Over time, you will learn to identify not only general male erogenous zones, but also individual ones for each man, which gives you power over the stronger sex. A man simply goes crazy when a girl caresses him as if she were reading his most intimate thoughts at that moment! Let's move on to practical exercises.
Head and face
You should not think that all sensitive areas are concentrated in the penis and scrotum region. Most men find pleasure in running their hair through women's hands. No less pleasant is the tenderness of touching the back of your hand to your cheeks, eyebrows and chin. Stroke his hair with your fingers spread wide so that the hair falls between them and brush the ends across his face. You can complement the action with gentle kisses on the earlobe. What excites me most is not the touch of lips, but the hot breath, which is perceived very sharply.
Neck
This part of a man's body is ideal for awakening passion with his hands. The most susceptible area is the strip of skin that runs from the earlobes to the middle of the shoulder. Move your fingertips up and down and continue with kisses. You can use tongue caresses if your partner responds positively to such stimuli.
The line from the beginning of hair growth to the interscapular area is the clue. Hot trips start from here, signaling that the lady will soon come down and there will be a "reward". . . Gently walk over it with the pads of your palm or fingers. Most likely, her body will be covered in goosebumps. Repeat.
To go back
On the back, in order to properly excite a man with your hands, you need to touch several points:
- between the shoulder blades
- above the shoulder blades, closer to the shoulder region,
- 3-5 cm below the interscapular zone,
- on both sides of the coccyx + the coccyx itself.
These "accumulators" of lust can be caressed with your fingertips, with your hair, and some girls know how to effectively influence them with their breasts. Men are very excited by touching women's nipples behind their backs.
For many guys, hugging from behind is an incredibly attractive gesture, especially in the case of a completely naked female body.
If everything is fine with the vegetation in your intimate area, you can use a completely blatant provocation - stroking the sacral back (tailbone area) with your pussy. Just remember that in a few seconds the guy will not be able to contain his desires, so the seduction with secret techniques will end there. Your only option is to tie him up or handcuff him.
In fact, an immobilized and blindfolded partner focuses more on tactile stimuli and therefore experiences more acute sensations. Take note of this idea!
Stem
On the front part of the body, the most sensual points that respond instantly to caresses are the nipples and the hairy part of the abdomen, leading to the height of masculine greatness. Note that men have slightly different nipple sensitivity than girls, so you shouldn't pull on them with the same intensity. There are individuals for whom such incentives will be unpleasant, therefore, dear tigresses and panthers, let us purr and listen to the desires of our seduced object. Many people like it when a girl runs her palms over her chest and stomach while sitting on top.
Shoulders and arms
The shoulders themselves are not an erogenous zone, but a light massage in the middle will help ensure a smooth transition from one part of the body to another. The hands, on the contrary, have several very sensitive points.
- The outer part of the elbow, or rather the inner bend of the arm, is a place with greater susceptibility to light touches. More brutal tactics go unanswered. You can move from this location to the wrist with your fingertips back and forth.
- The area between the middle and ring fingers. Many guys react to touching her by associating it with penis stroking.
- The inside of the palm and fingertips are also very sensitive to the gentle touches of hands, lips and warm breath.
Legs
Do you still think that a man's legs are not involved in arousal and are only needed for support during sexual intercourse? You were very wrong! It turns out that the feet are a real erogenous crater! Kneading the fingers, gently stroking the heels and insteps leave their owner more than excited.
The hollow under the knee is another erogenous zone for arousing a man with your hands. Caressing, light touches and pressure excite guys out of control.
The junction of the trunk and thighs is full of nerve endings, which allows this area of the man's body to be classified as highly erogenous. Stroking his hip bones with your fingers can make a guy shiver with pleasure.
anal hole
Many men will not let a woman into this area at gunpoint because they are ashamed or afraid of creating the image of a person focused on their own kind. And nature created her very erogenous! Caressing the anus from the outside and inside excites any man. The main thing is to relax. Gently stroking the anal ring with your fingertips sets the guy in the right mood. If you wish, you can put your fingers in his ass and feel the most sensitive spots there with the maximum response to passionate pleas. We already wrote how to do this in an article about how to persuade your husband to have sex with a strap on - read it.
Cock and scrotum
And the main dish is, of course, masculinity! Caressing the testicles with your hands (pulling, squeezing, fingering), masturbating the penis itself, and touching the skin in the area between the anus and genitals can result in gushing ejaculation. It all depends on your skills.
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How to properly caress a penis with your hands to excite a guy
To properly excite a man with your hands, you need to know how to handle his penis. Some girls are sure that shaking up and down and sanding the foreskin is enough for enchanting sensations. They are very wrong. You need to know how to handle a penis no less carefully than a woman's vagina.
Correct tightening
There are several basic ways to grab a penis.
- The traditional option is the fist, in which movements can be translational "up and down", or can involve spiral rotation.
- We press the head on top with our thumb and the rest is below.
- It is necessary to make a small ring (OK sign) with your thumb and index finger, connecting them and opening your fist (see photo below),
- If you first lubricate your hands with lubricant, it will be easy to excite a man. The fist in the reverse position (you need to see the back of the hand and the thumb pointing towards the woman) should move as if it were crushing the penis.
Caresses with fingers and hands
To enhance her partner's sensations, a woman needs to take care of the warmth of her hands in advance. Using any penis grabbing technique, stimulating a man with warm hands, you can quickly reach orgasm. But you shouldn't overheat the scrotum. There is nothing good about this for the boys' health.
Some representatives of the stronger sex like it when a woman pats the shaft with the phalanges of her fingers. It's best to do this by imagining that you are playing the guitar, so as not to visually scare your partner with radical movements.
A man gets a special feeling when his penis is caressed by two women's hands at the same time. We place the dignity between our palms without bending our fingers. We go up and down slowly and gently, touching the head with the thumb of one hand and making circular movements.
If your partner has a lot of foreskin, shake it differently: you don't need to go all the way to the base, on the contrary, perform compression manipulations towards the head. Under the skin, the main erogenous zone is caressed - the head of the penis, and because the caresses are done indirectly, there is no risk of erasing it. Men with this structure stand out with these techniques!
It is important not to forget to caress the testicles. The impact of simple massage movements will not only provide excitement, but also bring health: you can avoid problems with potency in adulthood by regularly stroking and massaging the testicles. Take them in your hands, hold them, squeeze them, pull them to the side or down a little (a little! this is not a wrist expander! ), then start massaging the base of the penis in circular motions and casually touch the testicles.
An unusual caress with the nail plate, which needs to be drawn along the shaft and along the scrotum, will add piquancy and enhance the effect of the entire process.
After the man is very excited, you can move on to more daring experiments. To continue, the girl needs to rub her lips on her partner's penis and make sliding movements without penetrating the vagina.
Combining the proposed techniques with a high-quality blowjob will help surprise your man and bring him to ecstasy in a matter of minutes! There are actually no hard and fast rules on how to properly turn on a man with your hands. To achieve harmony, examine your body inch by inch and monitor your reaction.
Some tips on massage techniques
We told you how to prepare a man for sexual intercourse and excite him as much as possible, but you want to subscribe so that he is completely and irrevocably hooked. Let's try to overcome potential rivals and find the anchor on which we will put you like a drug!
- Always soften your hands with oil or cream to ensure smooth movements. Sliding turns men on.
- Apply pressure by stroking, lightly pinching the muscles and pause for a few seconds. This greatly inflames passions.
- Always start your journey with the upper body and gradually work your way down. There is no need to go straight to the genitals.
- When moving to the perineum, play with clothing or a towel laid out after a shower to create even more excitement. Place your hands in his unbuttoned pants or under a towel, massage his private parts and whisper in his ear how much this turns you on.
- You can maintain a commanding tone and order what he will do in the next minute. Even strong men get excited when a girl takes the initiative into her own hands.
- Combine caresses with each other. Let the exciting hand massage turn into a wild orgy, when the young man no longer understands where his body is and where his penis is. A wave of voluptuousness should cover you!
- Use your chest. You can stroke the penis with both palms and place the head against the nipples. Men love touching breasts with an erect penis!
And the main advice is to always use the complicated Thai technique. When you reach the main point, select another very sensitive area and caress it at the same time. It can be a member-anus, a member-lower back, a member-buttocks, etc. You yourself will notice what a man responds to most. When he's finished, move to another secondary zone and discreetly stroke for another 20-30 seconds, as if you're calming your partner. It should not be the most sensitive to avoid causing irritation. Repeat this over and over again - this will become your trick.
To excite a man with your hands and bring him to orgasm, you don't need to wait for hints or requests from him. As a rule, representatives of the stronger sex do not hesitate to give the initiative in bed to their partner, relying on their playful mood and passionate temperament. Surprise and spontaneity are excellent conditions for bold experiments and 100% male excitement.
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